Group Chats Politics: The Unwritten Rules
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Group chats are where we keep in touch with friends and family, rant about our day and make plans. But, just like every other social setting, there are a few unspoken rules that everyone seems to follow. Take this as your guide to keep chats flowing… and not awkward!
Move Personal Chats to DM
If the chat seems to be just between you and someone else… MOVE the conversation outside of the group chat! Group chats are for general discussion, not DMCs (deep and meaningful conversations).
Acknowledge Messages
When someone sends a message, acknowledge it! Even when you have nothing to say back, give it a simple thumbs up - it lets the sender know they’re not being ignored.
Don’t Open Messages If You’re Not Ready to Reply
If you’re not in the mood to reply or can’t respond right away, it’s best to leave the chat unopened; and if you’ve accidentally opened the chat, just let the person know you’ll reply soon. This helps avoid the awkward “left on read” moment.
Do Not Spam the Chat
It can be tempting to send a bunch of quick messages when you’re excited or have multiple things to share, but flooding the chat with too many messages at once can be overwhelming. Instead, combine your thoughts into one message and send it off.
Don’t Ask for a Recap
We’ve all joined a text chain late and felt like we missed out. However, instead of asking for a play-by-play, take a moment to scroll back and read through the messages yourself. Everything you need to know is right there - these are literal receipts, girl.
Be Transparent
If you’re making plans that don’t include everyone in the group, it’s best to be upfront about it. No need to make anyone feel left out. Transparency is key!
Don’t let this put you off group chats! They’re a fun and great way to stay connected, but they come with a few unspoken rules that keep things running smoothly.
Get your group chat etiquette on, Beauties x
